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Romance is alive and well and living in Russia! While the value of romance has diminished in the west, it has gained importance in Russia and Ukraine. Russian girls understand and appreciate a romantic approach better than any other, and a romantic approach to a relationship is the key to success.

In a romantic approach, the gentleman is interested in the mood, thoughts and daily life of the lady. He is sensitive to her current situation and concerns. His approach courts her behavior and his goal is to anticipate her thoughts and needs and to satisfy them. He should ask himself, “What is she thinking about now and how can I anticipate and help?” Acting on the answers will save her time and trouble, but more importantly will align his behavior and thoughts with hers, a requirement for a lasting relationship.

Courtship is as old as the hills, but it still applies today, especially for Russian-American relationships. Forget the modernist objections to opening doors and ladies first, for they are truly appreciated by Russian girls.

For an initial contact, one should introduce himself with an introductory letter and a photo. The letter may be based on a template letter, but it must be reviewed and modified to suit the recipient. It should include where you found her, why you are interested, what your interests are and why the two of you would be good together. It should be translated into Russian by a professional service (no software translations), as one cannot rely on the English-level rating scales (1-5 typical) of the meeting agencies.

Some girls receive many letters and have difficulty selecting a good companion for a response. You can tilt the table in your favor in such a case by including a memento with your letter, such as a red rose or stuffed toy teddy bear. An extra like this will always get your letter read and will very likely garner a response.

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For example, take the expectation that a partner will help the other’s family. Thailand’s economy is fast growing, but it has passed through a turbulent past. As a result, a large part of the Thai society is underprivileged and not educated. But Thai people yearn for learning and mixing with the mainstream world. So much so that even in hotels, requests have been displayed for tourists to distribute English learning books for the benefit of underprivileged Thai people. Such yearning is reflected in dating behavior very distinctly and it is expected generally of the groom (but in some cases the girl too) to help the partner’s family grow. After the first few dates, if the boy and girl decide to go steady, gradually the parents or brothers and sisters join the meetings, maybe for a short while, where peculiar issues ranging from business to education or any other specific issues are discussed.

In marriage, the boy or girl is generally free to choose their own partner. While dating, each person makes sure that the would-be partner satisfies all the expectations. As such, dates are used to test the behavior of the partner to be. A partner is expected to be an active listener. During dating and even otherwise, Thais often do not overtly say what they are really feeling and thinking and expect the partner to read the nonverbal queues. It is a no-no to talk straight when there are gentler alternative ways to say the same thing. It is also in bad taste to make a partner lose face over an argument in public. Thai people are not loud and would avoid their display of love or arguments in public. Even if you are sitting at an adjacent table, you may not be able to comprehend anything said by the Thai couple, while they would have covered all the subjects under the moon. Occasionally, if any of the partners feels upset over any issue, the other party has to understand through nonverbal clues only.

Nowadays, drug use is becoming a major issue in Thailand and this time is also extensively used to find out whether the partner has any such problem. During dating, Thai girls ensure that the partner exercises self-control, self-discipline on spending money and demonstrates loyalty and honesty. Dating time is the time when both parties show the best in them; both dress nicely, show patience during conversation and being too assertive, showing too much of Machismo work counterproductive during dating.

Generally it is the boy, who takes initiative for dating. It would be impolite for a boy not to invite a girl for lunch or a movie on the first date. It would mean that the boy is not serious, if he does not invite her for an outgoing, social first or second date. However, Thai society is more liberal than many Asian countries and a girl can also take the first step towards dating. In fact, nowadays, data is emerging that girls in the age group of 19-27 earn more than boys and are taking more initiative for dating. During dating, casual but neat dress is in vogue for boys, however, both boy and girl appear to be totally masked with rich perfume.